Conversation Gambits - Eric Keller, Sylvia T Warner 1988

40. Arguments and Counter-arguments
2. Linking Gambits

Very often, when we have a plan, someone has an objection or a reservation. We then have to think up a counter-argument to try to persuade them.

In this dialogue the husband is trying to persuade his wife that they need a cottage in the country.

Him: Why don't we buy a cottage in the country — somewhere we could go at weekends and for holidays. (Plan)

Her: That's a good idea, but don't you think the children will get bored — can't you hear them — not the cottage AGAIN this summer! (Reservation)

Him: That's probably true, but I think it would be nice for us, and after all, it won't be long before they'll want to go off with their own friends. (Counter-argument)

Work in pairs with these ideas using the phrases for reservationsand counter-arguments.

1. A. take up skiling

B: don't have the time or money

A: it would be fun. good exercise

2. A: buy a flat

B: can t afford it

A: cheaper than paying rent

3. A: fly to Moscow

B: cheaper to go by train

A: wed lose a week of holiday just travelling, plus all the money on food

4. A: buy a new car — the old ones rusty

B: we haven’t finished paying for the old one

A: the old one’s dangerous

5. A: have a party

B:the neighbours would object

A: why not invite the neighbours

6. A: your plan

B: your reservation

A: your counter-argument

Reservation

Yes, but ...

Yes, but don’t forget.

That would be great, except ...

That’s a good idea, but ...

Counter-arguments

Even so,

Even if that is so,

That may be so, but.

That’s probably true, but ...

Possibly, but ...