Conversation Gambits - Eric Keller, Sylvia T Warner 1988
48. Right or wrong
3. Responding Gambits
If someone asks you a question, you answer it if you can But conversations do not consist of questions and answers. We very rarely ask direct questions. We make observations and pass comments. We expect other people to respond to us. How they respond tells us how to develop what we say. This means that successful conversations depend partly on how we respond to what other people say. For example, if you disagree very strongly with what someone says, you could say Yow must be joking! and the other person knows that you are surprised — this will make the person think more carefully before continuing.
The gambits in this section allow you to agree or disagree at different levels, to show surprise, disbelief, or polite interest. Among the most useful gambits are Sorry, I don't follow you — to get people to repeat what they said, and Really? to get them to develop what they said.
If you learn the responses in this section, other people will find you much easier to talk to and you will find yourself more relaxed and fluent in conversation.
48. Right or wrong
There are many ways of saying that a person is right or wrong about a piece of factual information.
Work in pairs or small groups of 3 or 4 saying what each of the following signs and abbreviations means Your partners will tell you whether you are right or wrong by using one of the phrases from the list
Traffic Signs
Mathematical Signs
Abbreviations
13. cm 14. °C 15. etc
16. PS 17. MP 18. PM
19. BC 20. Ph.D 21. TV
22. RSVP 23. IOU 24. POW
25. ETA 26. COD 27. DC
28. hp 29. mph 30. UN
31. WHO 32. GNP 33. MD
34. LTD 35. EEC 36. NATO
37. CD 38. Pta 39. %
40. PLC
Answers on page 95.
Correct
That’s right.
Right.
OK.
Yes.
Exactly!
Wrong
No, I’m afraid not.
Not quite.
You’re close.
?????
I don’t know.
I’m not sure.